Feb 10, 2010

Passion

Have you wake up in the early morning and had that amazing feeling that you are about to have a special day in your life, the feeling that you are about to experience an amazing situation or feel an indescribable feeling, and makes you want to get up right out of the bed and start your day with a big smile on your face and a bright hope in your heart.

Well I guess most of us miss that feeling these days, we are even spending our days looking for the reason behind its disappearing because we are striving to get it back , we need it back , but what are we actually missing in our lives these days?

Let me suggest something, maybe what we are missing is our passion, the passion that keep us alive and looking ahead for the future with a shining smile. The remaining question is what our passion is so we can look for it and try to get it back.

It is not a straight answer because every person has his own passion in life, some of us consider their passion as love, that indescribable feeling that you have in your heart when you meet that special one, the way you feel as if you are on the top of the world when you look in your lover's warm eyes, or at your lover's sweet smile. So if your passion is love, go for it and look for that special one of yours and feel the sweet of life once more , because as they are saying (If you are not in love, you are not living).

Some of us their passion is work. If they don’t wake up in the morning and go for work, either to feel good for doing something great in their life and making something out of themselves or simply to have some money to help them through, they are not living. So if you are one of those, start from today and look for your dream job, it may not be easy road or it may not come that quickly but eventually every patient person gets what he wants if it meant to be.

Another kind of passion is the feeling to be a parent. The feeling to see that sweet little part of you growing in front of your eyes day by day, to see their first walk, first smile, and hear their first word. I still didn’t experience that feeling but I'm sure that every single person on earth would love to have that one special passion because simply it is the most beautiful feeling in life anyone can experience. So if you have that passion on top of your list, why don’t you start trying from today? Better late than never so start now and try, just keep in your mind if it didn’t work it is not meant to be, and remember everything has a reason, you may never know it but there is.

Last kind I can think of is the talent or habit each person has, whether it was writing, drawing, playing sport, etc. So if you are that good in writing books and novels, or drawing that expressing paint, or even good in playing sport like basketball , find a way to have that talent within your daily routine. Spare some time of your day to make out the best of you in the shape of the talent you have. Start to write with the feeling as if you are about to write the best writing you ever had in your life, start to draw with the feeling if you are about to draw a remarkable paint that generation will talk about, start to play with the feeling that you are about to play the game of your life.

At the end, what you have to do is to find what your passion is and look for it starting from now because simply a life without a passion is not even a life.

2010.. New Year.. New Start...

Here we are starting a new year, having all those memories from last year, moments of joy and moments of grieve. All those memories of people who have been part of our lives whether we are glad to have them or even regret knowing them. But what about this year?

2010 is a year that will only come once in our lives so when you grow old what would u tell your grandchildren? Would you tell them about those perfect friends you had all through the way in good and bad times, those ones that sometimes u see them once in every couple of weeks but still miss them like it has been ages since you saw them.

Or would u tell them about your sisters and brothers who made you thank God everyday for having them in your life, supporting you when you need them the most and listen to you when no one else does.

Or would u tell them about those two amazing people we call them parents for being just the perfect supporter for you, for lending you a hand when you cant reach, give you strength when you are weak.

Or would u tell them about that special one who a simple hello from would make your day, perfect one who made you wake up everyday and wonder if they will be yours or the destiny wont be on your side this time.

If you wanna tell them about all that, then start this year by letting all those special friends know how much you care about, how even though life circumstances will keep u apart , you will always be there for them. Let them know that you will always be there listening to them when no one does, caring about them like no one ever did and most of all loving them with all you have.

Start this year by showing your younger brothers and sisters how they fill your life with happiness and joy and how you will always be by their side no matter what. Let your oldest one know how much you love and respect them because eventually love and family is all that it matters

Start this year by showing your mom and dad that their sacrifices will always matters, showing them how a good person you are today because of them, because simply you would have never been something if it weren’t for them. One day we all will become parents and realize that truth, we all going to see and feel all those sleepless night, feel all those tears that shed on our kids' pains,

Start this year by letting that special one knows how you feel because if there is a good advice anyone can give is that nothing and no one is for granted. So don’t take that special one for granted cause u never know if you will have another chance to hear that hello that makes ur day, see that shinning smile that brings joy in your heart, and for sure you never know if you will have another chance to say I love you.

And most of all, start this year by knowing that past is past, what is done cant be undone, u cant change it so stop chasing the past and remember the bad times in it, it will only make your present hard. Just chase your dreams and look for a bright year and future cause when you have that feeling that you deserve to have perfect year , that feeling that you will have a shinning amazing year , you will all you have to do is believe.

Sep 11, 2009

If You Change Your Life

If u change your life, would u know for sure that you will have the same great parents who stood beside you through everything you went through, who laughed when you laughed and gave you a warm shoulder when you cried, maybe they weren’t the best parents you ever wanted since you've heard a lot of No from them, or maybe stopped you from making one of your dreams come true but trust me, those No you’ve heard made you the person you are now and probably saved you from so many harmful things you could ever imagine, and that dream was never meant for you to achieve whether because of your parents or not, it is an already written destiny which we are just living it.

If you change your life, would you know for sure that you will go back and choose the right friends just like those whom you have right now, those soul mates who stood beside you all the way through when no else ever cared, understood you when no one else tried, and believed in you when no else does. Would you know for sure that you will find friends who will know all there about you and loves you anyway the way your best friends do.

We all have different types of friends through the days of our lives, some of them you shared so many amazing years with, that sometimes it reaches ten or twenty years. If you can still hold them within your hands and find them whenever you need someone to lend you a hand before you ask and give you love when you need it most, don’t let go. That’s a rare gift that most people wish they have and would do anything to have that kind of friend to support their backs. But if you cant, and you no longer the same don’t be sad, life has to move on and we all grow up to become different people but you will always know deep down in your heart that you will always find them there for u whenever u need even though you don’t see them a lot, like they say (Even though we said goodbye remember we watch the same sunset) so as long there will be a sunset, they will be too.

And some of the friends we have, we've known them for years but never thought they can change our lives just by having them in. Everything happen for a reason, and for that reason some coincidence or situation happens to us in order to know the value of those people, to know that they will become like your shadow, become your eyes when you cant see, become your voice when you cant speak, your strength when you are weak, and left you up when you cant reach. One day those were just normal friends, and simply they become your best friends, your soul mates by time. So if you can guarantee to me that you can change your life and find those same friends, I will change my life from today

If you can change your life and maybe change the childhood you had or change the school you went to, would you know for sure that you will have those same memories you remember now, would you know for sure that you will have those enjoyable days like your first day to school when you had to leave the most precious person on your heart in order to go and learn ABCs, right from wrong, meaning of life and friendship, those days where you had your first fall and scratch from playing with your dear friends, or those crazy moments when you had so many childish dreams and thoughts and shared them with your class mates every single days of an special twelve years from your life. And mostly having a remarkable day when you get to graduate from high school with people you shared with sad and happy moments, great and disappointment memories, and most important when you made your mother proud of becoming the person you’ve become and letting her now that her sacrifices always worth everything to you and will always mean everything.

If you can change your life and maybe change the college or university you went to, would you know for sure that you will get to know those same new friends you got to know within four years. If destiny was meant to be, they might actually become some of your best friends that you will always love and cherish every single moment you spent with, and will spend with them in the next years because best friends and soul mates are not specified to a special place or time, they are always there with you. But if it wasn’t meant to be, at least you get to know great people who made an effect in your life in one way or another.

Would you know for sure that you will find that same guy who you actually got admired of, or maybe got a crush on. The same guy who maybe seeing him every day changed your life for better or at least made it more enjoyable and filled your days with happiness. Maybe you got the courage to do something about it and destiny was on your side and something great came out of that which still exist after those four years, or maybe not and you just got to know that one special guy who get in your life for some reason whether you realized it or not

If you can change your life and change the mistakes you’ve made through those years, would you know for sure that you will never repeat them again. As you know, we all humans and we all do mistakes whether we wanted it or not. So if you tell me that I can change my life and be a perfect human and never repeat the mistakes I've made, I will again change my life from today. But mistakes are always made in order to learn from them, to know the right from wrong through them and try to become better people. Always remember if it wasn’t because of our mistakes and learning from them, we weren’t become the people we are today

If you can change your life and change your path of career you had, would you know for sure that you will have the same opportunities that you had and made you the successful man or woman you are today, or you will have the same collegues you had through the way especially if they were faithful to you. If they were , you are in a bless but if they were not remember no one is perfect and no great road doesn’t have some humps in it, you just have to know how to get through them.

So don’t change anything in your life cause it simply made who you are at this moment. Look at the mirror and if you like what you are seeing, then you are blessed, and if you don’t, always remember it is never too late, u don’t need to change your life and change your past, but u can change the road you are taking right now and change your future.

The past is just a road that helps you shape your future, the way u see and want it