If u change your life, would u know for sure that you will have the same great parents who stood beside you through everything you went through, who laughed when you laughed and gave you a warm shoulder when you cried, maybe they weren’t the best parents you ever wanted since you've heard a lot of No from them, or maybe stopped you from making one of your dreams come true but trust me, those No you’ve heard made you the person you are now and probably saved you from so many harmful things you could ever imagine, and that dream was never meant for you to achieve whether because of your parents or not, it is an already written destiny which we are just living it.
If you change your life, would you know for sure that you will go back and choose the right friends just like those whom you have right now, those soul mates who stood beside you all the way through when no else ever cared, understood you when no one else tried, and believed in you when no else does. Would you know for sure that you will find friends who will know all there about you and loves you anyway the way your best friends do.
We all have different types of friends through the days of our lives, some of them you shared so many amazing years with, that sometimes it reaches ten or twenty years. If you can still hold them within your hands and find them whenever you need someone to lend you a hand before you ask and give you love when you need it most, don’t let go. That’s a rare gift that most people wish they have and would do anything to have that kind of friend to support their backs. But if you cant, and you no longer the same don’t be sad, life has to move on and we all grow up to become different people but you will always know deep down in your heart that you will always find them there for u whenever u need even though you don’t see them a lot, like they say (Even though we said goodbye remember we watch the same sunset) so as long there will be a sunset, they will be too.
And some of the friends we have, we've known them for years but never thought they can change our lives just by having them in. Everything happen for a reason, and for that reason some coincidence or situation happens to us in order to know the value of those people, to know that they will become like your shadow, become your eyes when you cant see, become your voice when you cant speak, your strength when you are weak, and left you up when you cant reach. One day those were just normal friends, and simply they become your best friends, your soul mates by time. So if you can guarantee to me that you can change your life and find those same friends, I will change my life from today
If you can change your life and maybe change the childhood you had or change the school you went to, would you know for sure that you will have those same memories you remember now, would you know for sure that you will have those enjoyable days like your first day to school when you had to leave the most precious person on your heart in order to go and learn ABCs, right from wrong, meaning of life and friendship, those days where you had your first fall and scratch from playing with your dear friends, or those crazy moments when you had so many childish dreams and thoughts and shared them with your class mates every single days of an special twelve years from your life. And mostly having a remarkable day when you get to graduate from high school with people you shared with sad and happy moments, great and disappointment memories, and most important when you made your mother proud of becoming the person you’ve become and letting her now that her sacrifices always worth everything to you and will always mean everything.
If you can change your life and maybe change the college or university you went to, would you know for sure that you will get to know those same new friends you got to know within four years. If destiny was meant to be, they might actually become some of your best friends that you will always love and cherish every single moment you spent with, and will spend with them in the next years because best friends and soul mates are not specified to a special place or time, they are always there with you. But if it wasn’t meant to be, at least you get to know great people who made an effect in your life in one way or another.
Would you know for sure that you will find that same guy who you actually got admired of, or maybe got a crush on. The same guy who maybe seeing him every day changed your life for better or at least made it more enjoyable and filled your days with happiness. Maybe you got the courage to do something about it and destiny was on your side and something great came out of that which still exist after those four years, or maybe not and you just got to know that one special guy who get in your life for some reason whether you realized it or not
If you can change your life and change the mistakes you’ve made through those years, would you know for sure that you will never repeat them again. As you know, we all humans and we all do mistakes whether we wanted it or not. So if you tell me that I can change my life and be a perfect human and never repeat the mistakes I've made, I will again change my life from today. But mistakes are always made in order to learn from them, to know the right from wrong through them and try to become better people. Always remember if it wasn’t because of our mistakes and learning from them, we weren’t become the people we are today
If you can change your life and change your path of career you had, would you know for sure that you will have the same opportunities that you had and made you the successful man or woman you are today, or you will have the same collegues you had through the way especially if they were faithful to you. If they were , you are in a bless but if they were not remember no one is perfect and no great road doesn’t have some humps in it, you just have to know how to get through them.
So don’t change anything in your life cause it simply made who you are at this moment. Look at the mirror and if you like what you are seeing, then you are blessed, and if you don’t, always remember it is never too late, u don’t need to change your life and change your past, but u can change the road you are taking right now and change your future.
The past is just a road that helps you shape your future, the way u see and want it